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At-Home Entertaining – Elevating Your Hosting Game

Entertaining at home can be a delightful experience, allowing you to showcase your hospitality and creativity while creating lasting memories with loved ones. As you grow older, you tend to have many responsibilities that make it difficult to go out and socialize. However, hosting a dinner party or a fun barbecue can be a great way to bring people together and tap into your inner host. It’s an opportunity to enjoy good company and good food without leaving your home.

Whether you’re hosting an intimate dinner party, a casual brunch, or a lively cocktail soiree, attention to detail is key. From the choice of glassware to the ambiance of your terrace dinner, here are some tips to ensure your at-home gatherings are a hit.


  • Glasses: Opt for a variety of glassware to suit different drinks, from wine and cocktails to water and juice. Stemless wine glasses are versatile and less prone to tipping over, while elegant highball glasses elevate any cocktail hour.
  • Napkins: Use cloth napkins for a touch of sophistication, and fold them in creative ways to add flair to your table setting. Consider incorporating napkin rings or personalized monograms for a personalized touch.
  • Plates: Mix and match plates in various shapes and sizes for visual interest. Choose durable yet stylish options that complement your decor and theme.
  • Kitchen Etiquette: Keep your kitchen tidy and well-organized to ensure smooth food preparation and service. Delegate tasks among guests or hire help to minimize stress and maximize enjoyment.


  • Appetizers: Start by serving a selection of bite-sized appetisers that are easy to eat while socializing. You can opt for a mix of hot and cold options, including vegetarian and gluten-free choices to accommodate dietary preferences. Some examples of bite-sized appetisers that you can serve include mini quiches, bruschetta, meatballs, and shrimp cocktails. For vegetarian options, you can serve stuffed mushrooms, vegetable spring rolls, or grilled vegetable skewers.
  • Drinks: Meals are incomplete without drinks, which is why they are an integral part of making a party successful. You can create a signature cocktail or offer a selection of wines, beers, and non-alcoholic beverages. You can always set up a DIY drink station with garnishes, mixers, and ice for guests to customize their drinks. It’s always a good idea to keep lemons with drinks so your guests can enjoy your well-crafted cocktails without getting too drunk.
  • Self-Service: Set up self-serve stations for food and drinks to encourage mingling and ease congestion. If you are having a large gathering you can also label each station clearly and provide serving utensils to ensure guests can help themselves. Pro tip: Whenever you serve vegetarian and non-vegetarian options, it’s always a good idea to label them as well. You can use red forks for non-vegetarian dishes, and green ones for vegetarian meals.
  • Desserts: End the meal on a sweet note with a variety of desserts. You can serve multiple types of desserts aligning with your guest’s palate. Consider a dessert bar with a variety of treats, including cheesecakes, tiramisu, chocolate mousse, and a lot more.


  • Collections: Time to bring out the expensive cutlery you bought just to use for special occasions. Showcase your unique collections or heirloom pieces as conversation starters or decorative accents. From vintage teacups to antique silverware, these personal touches add character to your table setting.
  • Invitations: Make your event stand out with personalized invitations that express your creativity. Whether formal or casual, your invites should include essential details like date, time, location, and RSVP instructions.
  • Buffet Table: Arrange your buffet table strategically to ensure smooth flow and easy access for guests. Use tiered stands or risers to maximize space and display dishes at varying heights. You can use hot plates to keep hot food items warm and fresh throughout the event.
  • Beverage Bar: Create a dedicated beverage bar stocked with a selection of drinks, glassware, and garnishes. Add decorative elements like fresh flowers or themed signage to enhance the visual appeal.
  • Lighting: Set the mood with ambient lighting that is warm and inviting. Use a combination of overhead fixtures, table lamps, and candles to create a cozy atmosphere.
  • Decoration: If you’re hosting a formal dinner, a simple centerpiece made of fresh flowers, candles, or a combination of both can create a beautiful focal point. For a more casual gathering, you could use a table runner and add some mason jars filled with wildflowers or succulents as your centerpiece. You could also incorporate some rustic elements like wooden place mats or coasters to create a cozy, relaxed atmosphere.


  • Furniture: You can maximize space and comfort by rearranging your furniture and adding seating options like couches, armchairs, and ottomans to accommodate guests. If you have a small room, consider using multi-functional furniture, such as a sofa bed or an ottoman with storage. It’s best to use rugs to define different areas within the room and to add texture and color.
  • Terrace Dinner: Take advantage of outdoor space by hosting a terrace dinner at your home. You can set up string lights or lanterns for ambiance and consider renting outdoor heaters for cooler evenings.
  • Poolside Lunch: Most homeowners who have villas with premium amenities, can enjoy relaxing in their private pool. And if you have a pool, why not host a poolside lunch? Provide ample seating and shade options, and offer refreshing beverages and light fare for a relaxed and enjoyable experience.

With these tips, you can elevate your at-home entertaining game and create memorable experiences for your guests. Remember to focus on creativity and attention to detail to ensure a successful gathering every time. Whether you’re hosting an intimate dinner party or a lively poolside lunch, the key is to make your guests feel welcome and comfortable, allowing them to relax and enjoy themselves to the fullest at your home.

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